Hi\u00e7 merak ediyor musunuz, bir gen\u00e7 nas\u0131l bir su\u00e7 makinesi haline gelebilir? \u0130\u00e7inde bulunduklar\u0131 bu kara kuyuya nas\u0131l d\u00fc\u015ferler?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Aile i\u00e7inde ya\u015fan\u0131lan problemler, \u015fiddet i\u00e7eren kavgalar, \u00e7ocuklara yans\u0131r.
\u2022 Aile \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 bask\u0131c\u0131 y\u00f6ntemler , a\u011f\u0131r cezalar gibi etkin olmayan \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler uygulad\u0131k\u00e7a, \u00e7ocu\u011fu bir kenara iter, ihmal ve istismar edilmeye ba\u015flan\u0131r.
\u2022 Sonu\u00e7 olarak \u00e7ocuk, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 adland\u0131r\u0131lamaz. Hissetti\u011fi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ile ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131, makul hedefler koymay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenemez.
\u2022 Okul \u00f6ncesi y\u0131llarda k\u00f6t\u00fc deneyimler ya\u015fayan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ergenlik d\u00f6nemine geldiklerinde e\u011fitim hayatlar\u0131nda zorluk \u00e7ekmesi, akranlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 agresif davranmas\u0131 , arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkilerini geli\u015ftirmekte zorluk \u00e7ekmesi ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz olur.
\u2022 Aile \u00e7ocu\u011fun okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilece\u011fini bilemez, \u00e7ocuktan beklentileri y\u00fckselir, giderek \u00e7ocu\u011fun okulla olan ili\u015fkileri de bozulur. Bir s\u00fcre sonra \u00e7ocuk okul problemini d\u0131\u015flamaya ve ret etmeye ba\u015flar.
\u2022 \u00c7ocu\u011fun tepkisel davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 okul y\u00f6netimi taraf\u0131ndan desteklenemez bir hale gelir ve giderek \u201c\u00fcmitsiz vaka\u201d olarak de\u011ferlendirmeye ba\u015flan\u0131r, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc aile okuldan beklerken , okul da aileden beklemektedir.
\u2022 Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde \u00e7ocuk okuldan ka\u00e7maya ba\u015flar. Art\u0131k ergenin hedefleri kaybolmu\u015f, aileye ve toplumsal de\u011ferlere yabanc\u0131la\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\u2022 Okulda arkada\u015flar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan sevilmedik\u00e7e , ret edildik\u00e7e kendisine uygun arkada\u015flar aramaya ba\u015flar. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman da ya\u015f\u00e7a kendinden b\u00fcy\u00fck ki\u015filer ile arkada\u015fl\u0131k eder.
\u2022 Giderek \u00e7ocuk kavga olaylar\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde bulur kendini, enerjisini bo\u015faltacak , kendini ifade edecek bir mecra bulmu\u015ftur kendine. Art\u0131k alkol, esrar , extasy gibi ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k yap\u0131c\u0131 maddeler ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmas\u0131 , ummad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015filerden fiziksel, cinsel, psikolojik \u015fiddet g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flamas\u0131 an meselesidir \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aile ise, art\u0131k ondan \u00fcmidi kesmi\u015ftir. Bir nevi teslim olmu\u015flard\u0131r. Onu izlemekten vazge\u00e7er ve kendi haline b\u0131rak\u0131rlar. Bu da sorunun giderek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fcz hale gelmesine yol a\u00e7ar. Okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir yandan, arkada\u015flar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan itilmek bir yandan, evde u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131 fiziksel ve psikolojik \u015fiddet bir yandan genci s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131k\u00e7a , b\u00fct\u00fcn problemlerini ilk \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi y\u00f6ntem olan \u015e\u0130DDET ile \u00e7\u00f6zmek isteyecek ve geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc \u00e7ok zor olan yollara sapacakt\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hi\u00e7 merak ediyor musunuz, bir gen\u00e7 nas\u0131l bir su\u00e7 makinesi haline gelebilir? \u0130\u00e7inde bulunduklar\u0131 bu kara kuyuya nas\u0131l d\u00fc\u015ferler? \u2022 Aile i\u00e7inde ya\u015fan\u0131lan problemler, \u015fiddet i\u00e7eren kavgalar, \u00e7ocuklara yans\u0131r.\u2022 Aile \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 bask\u0131c\u0131 y\u00f6ntemler , a\u011f\u0131r cezalar gibi etkin olmayan \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler uygulad\u0131k\u00e7a, \u00e7ocu\u011fu bir kenara iter, ihmal ve istismar edilmeye ba\u015flan\u0131r.\u2022 Sonu\u00e7 olarak \u00e7ocuk, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":6538,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[158],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6476","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uzman-gorusleri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6476","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6476"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6476\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6537,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6476\/revisions\/6537"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6538"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6476"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6476"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6476"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}