Anneannemin uzun yast\u0131klar\u0131 vard\u0131 eskiden, yeni evlenecek k\u0131zlar\u0131n ilk \u00e7eyizlerinden biriydi. Hatta d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc tebrik etmeye giden ki\u015filer \u201c Allah bir yast\u0131kta kocats\u0131n \u201c diye dua ederlerdi. Tek ki\u015filik yast\u0131klara ise \u201c K\u00fcst\u00fcm Yast\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201c denilirdi. K\u00fcsenler yast\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131rs\u0131n ama asla yataklar\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131rmas\u0131n derdi anneannem.
Evlili\u011fin temel kurallar\u0131ndan biridir, birlikte yatmak. \u00c7iftlerin hem duygusal hem de bedensel olarak birbirlerine yak\u0131n olabilmelerinin yoludur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Seanslar\u0131mda bir \u00e7ok \u00e7iftin aile \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc al\u0131rken, ya kendi anne ve babalar\u0131n\u0131n ya da \u015fu anki evliliklerinde \u00e7iftlerin s\u0131k\u00e7a yatak ay\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, hatta uzun y\u0131llar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla birlikte yatt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011freniyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unutmay\u0131n\u0131z ki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z kad\u0131n- erkek olmay\u0131, anne- baba olmay\u0131, kar\u0131- koca olmay\u0131 sizden \u00f6\u011freniyorlar. Sizin evlilik modeliniz, onlar\u0131n ileride kuracaklar\u0131 yuvalar\u0131n\u0131n temelini olu\u015fturacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131z ka\u00e7 olursa olsun e\u015finizle birlikte yat\u0131n ;
\u2022 Yatak odan\u0131z\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam alan\u0131n\u0131z haline getirmeyin
\u2022 Uyku zaman\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 birbirinize denk getirin, \u201c sen git , ben sonra gelirim \u201c diyerek e\u015finizi yata\u011fa tek g\u00f6ndermeyin
\u2022 Yatak odan\u0131z\u0131n mahremiyetini koruyun
\u2022 Yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda tablet, notebook,cep telefonu gibi elektronik cihazlar bulundurmay\u0131n
\u2022 \u0130nternette s\u00f6rf yapmay\u0131n, faceebook, twitter gibi sosyal payla\u015f\u0131m sitelerini yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131zla payla\u015fmay\u0131n
\u2022 G\u00fcn\u00fcn problemlerini yatak odan\u0131zda konu\u015fmay\u0131n
\u2022 Horluyor , \u00e7ok d\u00f6n\u00fcyor gibi bahaneler ile yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ay\u0131rmak yerine , sa\u011fl\u0131k problemlerinizi \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcn
\u2022 \u00c7ok mecbur kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z s\u00fcrece yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 eve gelen misafirlerinize vermeyin
\u2022 Yatak odan\u0131zda tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n, kavga etmeyin
\u2022 Tart\u0131\u015fmalardan sonra yast\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 al\u0131p ba\u015fka odaya gitmeyin,
\u2022 \u00d6zellikle kavga ettikten sonra gidip \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla yatmay\u0131n,
\u2022 \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, cinsel birliktelikten ka\u00e7mak i\u00e7in kalkan olarak kullanmay\u0131n.
\u2022 S\u00fcrekli bir \u015fekilde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 aran\u0131zda yat\u0131rmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Anneannemin uzun yast\u0131klar\u0131 vard\u0131 eskiden, yeni evlenecek k\u0131zlar\u0131n ilk \u00e7eyizlerinden biriydi. Hatta d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc tebrik etmeye giden ki\u015filer \u201c Allah bir yast\u0131kta kocats\u0131n \u201c diye dua ederlerdi. Tek ki\u015filik yast\u0131klara ise \u201c K\u00fcst\u00fcm Yast\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201c denilirdi. K\u00fcsenler yast\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131rs\u0131n ama asla yataklar\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131rmas\u0131n derdi anneannem.Evlili\u011fin temel kurallar\u0131ndan biridir, birlikte yatmak. \u00c7iftlerin hem duygusal hem de bedensel […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":6517,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[158],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6462","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uzman-gorusleri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6462","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6462"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6462\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6518,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6462\/revisions\/6518"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6517"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6462"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6462"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6462"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}