Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde gencin bedeni h\u0131zla b\u00fcy\u00fcrken, ruhsal olgunla\u015fma daha yava\u015f geli\u015fti\u011finden bu duruma uyum sa\u011flarken davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda tutars\u0131zl\u0131k, duygular\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fiklik g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hormonlardaki de\u011fi\u015fim cinsel d\u00fcrt\u00fclerde art\u0131\u015f, cinsel organlarda b\u00fcy\u00fcme ile bunalan gen\u00e7 kendisi i\u00e7in yabanc\u0131 olan bu duruma uyum sa\u011flamakta zorlan\u0131r. Bir yandan b\u00fcy\u00fcmek i\u00e7in sab\u0131rs\u0131zlan\u0131rken bir yandan da \u00e7ocuk gibi davran\u0131r.
\u00d6zellikle bu d\u00f6nemde de\u011fi\u015fen cinsel organlar\u0131n\u0131 merak etmesi ve cinsel d\u00fcrt\u00fcleri ile nas\u0131l ba\u015f edece\u011fini bilememesi pek \u00e7ok yanl\u0131\u015f davran\u0131\u015f geli\u015ftirmesine neden olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu nedenle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla ya\u015flar\u0131na uygun , yarg\u0131lamadan, su\u00e7lamadan, sakin ve do\u011fru cinsel bilgi vermelisiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u0130NSEL B\u0130LG\u0130Y\u0130 A\u0130LE VERMEL\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201c O\u011flum 15 ya\u015f\u0131nda , bir arkada\u015f\u0131 ile evde m\u00fczik dinliyorlard\u0131, aniden odalar\u0131na girdi\u011fimde birbirlerinin cinsel organlar\u0131n\u0131 ellerken g\u00f6rd\u00fcm, \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131na d\u00f6nd\u00fcm, hemen arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 evden kovdum ve o\u011fluma tokat att\u0131m. San\u0131r\u0131m benim o\u011flum bir homoseks\u00fcel ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m doktor han\u0131m\u201d Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde cinsel kimlik aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7inde olan gen\u00e7ler kendi cinsiyetindekilerden de ho\u015flan\u0131p ho\u015flanamad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 merak ederler, hatta bazen deneyimleyerek \u00f6\u011frenmek isterler. Onlar\u0131n hen\u00fcz olgunla\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnecek olursak bu t\u00fcr kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 ya\u015famalar\u0131 normaldir. Sakin davranmal\u0131, ergenlik d\u00f6nemindeki cinsel geli\u015fim hakk\u0131nda do\u011fru bilgilendirilmelidir. Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde gencin bedeni h\u0131zla b\u00fcy\u00fcrken, ruhsal olgunla\u015fma daha yava\u015f geli\u015fti\u011finden bu duruma uyum sa\u011flarken davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda tutars\u0131zl\u0131k, duygular\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fiklik g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. Hormonlardaki de\u011fi\u015fim cinsel d\u00fcrt\u00fclerde art\u0131\u015f, cinsel organlarda b\u00fcy\u00fcme ile bunalan gen\u00e7 kendisi i\u00e7in yabanc\u0131 olan bu duruma uyum sa\u011flamakta zorlan\u0131r. Bir yandan b\u00fcy\u00fcmek i\u00e7in sab\u0131rs\u0131zlan\u0131rken bir yandan da \u00e7ocuk gibi davran\u0131r.\u00d6zellikle bu d\u00f6nemde de\u011fi\u015fen cinsel […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":6513,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[158],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6461","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uzman-gorusleri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6461","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6461"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6461\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6515,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6461\/revisions\/6515"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6513"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6461"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6461"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6461"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\u2022 Bu d\u00f6nemde de\u011fi\u015fen hormonlar\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131, nas\u0131l fiziksel de\u011fi\u015fimleri ya\u015fan\u0131yorsa ( boy uzamas\u0131, t\u00fcylenmede art\u0131\u015f, ses kal\u0131nla\u015fmas\u0131 gibi ) testislerinde ve penisinde de b\u00fcy\u00fcmenin normal oldu\u011funu, meni \u00fcretimi oldu\u011funu ve gencin mast\u00fcrbasyon yapma yolu ile bu meninin d\u0131\u015far\u0131 at\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n normal oldu\u011fu anlat\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.
\u2022 Mast\u00fcrbasyonun k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya da g\u00fcnah olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemeli ancak ki\u015finin bedeninin \u00f6zel oldu\u011funu ve bu nedenle ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda yap\u0131lmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini anlatmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.
\u2022 Bu d\u00f6nemde geceleri cinsel i\u00e7erikli r\u00fcyalar g\u00f6rebilece\u011fini, sabahlar\u0131 sertle\u015fmi\u015f bir penis ile uyanabilece\u011fini, hatta k\u00fclotlar\u0131n\u0131n meni ile \u0131slanabilece\u011fini , b\u00f6yle durumda korkmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini , meninin pis olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ancak yine de du\u015f almas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini anlatmals\u0131\u0131n\u0131z.
\u2022 Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde o\u011flunuz banyoda daha uzun kalmak isteyecektir, onu bu konuda s\u00fcrekli uyarmamal\u0131, rahat b\u0131rakmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. M\u00fcmk\u00fcnse ayr\u0131 bir odas\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.
\u2022 Cinsel olarak uyar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, mast\u00fcrbasyon ihtiyac\u0131 duydu\u011funda bunu kendi evinde , kendi odas\u0131nda kimse yokken yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini, bunun \u00f6zel bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu ve \u00f6zel \u015feylerin yaln\u0131z ya\u015fanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemelisiniz.
\u2022 Asla k\u0131z ya da erkek karde\u015f, yak\u0131n akraba \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ya da ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 bu d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fcne alet etmemesi gerekti\u011fini, bunun kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocu\u011fa hem fiziksel hem de ruhsal b\u00fcy\u00fck zarar verece\u011fini ,
\u2022 18 ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u00f6nce bir kad\u0131nla cinsel birliktelik deneyiminin do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 , \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc biyolojik geli\u015fimin yeterli olmay\u0131p ruhsal ve sosyal a\u00e7\u0131dan da yeterli olunmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini,
\u2022 Evlilik hayalleri ile haz\u0131r olmadan girilen cinsel ili\u015fkinin sosyal sorunlar\u0131 da beraberinde getirmesinin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra kendisinde de \u00e7ok ciddi ruhsal sorunlar yaratabilece\u011fini anlatmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.
\u2022 Cinsel yolla bula\u015fan ( AIDS, Hepatit B, Sifiliz,Herpes, gibi ) hastal\u0131klar, istenmeyen gebelikler ve sonucunda ya\u015fanabilecek s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar, korunma yollar\u0131yla ilgili bilgileri de ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan de\u011fil, sizden \u00f6\u011frenmeliler.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"