{"id":4882,"date":"2024-12-09T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-12-09T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/?p=4882"},"modified":"2024-12-18T09:29:00","modified_gmt":"2024-12-18T06:29:00","slug":"kumar-bagimliligi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/2024\/12\/09\/kumar-bagimliligi\/","title":{"rendered":"Kumar Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Maa\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n 3 kat\u0131ndan fazlas\u0131n\u0131 \u0130DD\u0130A&nbsp; ya da AT YARI\u015eI gibi oyunlara yat\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen bir dan\u0131\u015fan\u0131m e\u015finden bo\u015fanmak istedi\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyordu. \u201c 7 y\u0131ll\u0131k evliyiz, iki \u00e7ocuc\u011fumuz var, evin ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 bile maa\u015f\u0131m\u0131zla tam kar\u015f\u0131layam\u0131yorken bir de gidip s\u00fcrekli paray\u0131 kumara yat\u0131r\u0131yor doktor han\u0131m, ba\u015fka \u00e7arem kalmad\u0131, ya bo\u015fan\u0131yoruz avukata gidelim ya da tedavi olmay\u0131 kabul et \u201c dedim .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u015fi ise ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131yordu;\u201d asl\u0131nda ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 falan de\u011filim. Lise 2 den beri arkada\u015flarla ganyan bayine tak\u0131l\u0131r\u0131z. Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta \u00f6ylesine har\u00e7l\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zla oynuyorduk, hatta bir keresinde 1500 Tl kazand\u0131m. Benim i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck parayd\u0131 ama sonra \u00fcst \u00fcste kaybetmeye ba\u015flad\u0131m. \u00dcst\u00fcne d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bor\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z eklendi, bu son olacak bir kez daha oynay\u0131p b\u0131rak\u0131cam dedim. E\u015fimden habersiz b\u00fct\u00fcn alt\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 satt\u0131m, kazanaca\u011f\u0131ma emindim. K\u00f6t\u00fc bir niyetim yoktu, kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m parayla tekrar alt\u0131nlar\u0131 yerine koyacakt\u0131m. Ama \u015fanss\u0131zl\u0131k i\u015fte hepsini kaybettim. Bu sefer alt\u0131nlar\u0131 yerine koymak i\u00e7in di\u011fer t\u00fcm \u015fans oyunlar\u0131na para yat\u0131rmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u015fim fark edince \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc kavga \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131, aileme s\u00f6yledi. Babam \u00f6demeyi kabul etti, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir badire atlatt\u0131k. 1 y\u0131l oynamad\u0131m. Bir g\u00fcn arkada\u015f\u0131m geldi, \u00e7ok g\u00fcvendi\u011fi bir at oldu\u011funu bu sefer kesin kazanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi ve onunla ortak girmemi istedi. Teklif \u00e7ok cazipti kabul ettim, sonras\u0131 ise i\u015fte bildi\u011finiz gibi, yine her \u015feyi berbat ettim. \u201c HAYIR\u201d&nbsp; diyemiyorum, e\u015fimi ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131 seviyorum, ayr\u0131lmak da istemiyorum. Ben \u015fimdi ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m doktor han\u0131m?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Duygusal G\u00fcvensizlik<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yukar\u0131daki dan\u0131\u015fan \u00f6rne\u011finde de g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz gibi, at yar\u0131\u015f\u0131, iddia, makine oyunlar\u0131 ya da ka\u011f\u0131t oyunlar\u0131na olan ilginin hobi olmaktan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p, patolojik kumar ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ok g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. \u00d6zellikle de ula\u015f\u0131labilirli\u011fi kolayla\u015ft\u0131ran bilgisayar ve cep telefonlar\u0131 gibi teknolojik geli\u015fmelerin de kumar ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131\u015f\u0131nda rol\u00fc b\u00fcy\u00fck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Asl\u0131nda \u00f6zg\u00fcveni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck, ger\u00e7ekleri kabul etmede isteksiz, \u201cHay\u0131r\u201d deme becerisi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck, hayalperest, neden sonu\u00e7 ili\u015fkisini kurmakta g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck \u00e7eken ki\u015filerin kendisine ve \u00e7evresine zarar verecek d\u00fczeyde kumar oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya\u015famlar\u0131ndaki ger\u00e7eklerden uzakla\u015fmak ve problemlerini unutmak isteyip, mevcut problemlerini yads\u0131man\u0131n kolayl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ke\u015ffettiklerinde, ge\u00e7ici haz duygusu pe\u015finde &nbsp;kendini ispat edebilme duygusu i\u00e7inde var olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Tan\u0131 Kriterleri:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Zihin me\u015fguliyeti: Ki\u015finin akl\u0131nda s\u00fcrekli kumar oynama davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tolerans: \u0130stedi\u011fi heyecan\u0131 sa\u011flayabilmek i\u00e7in giderek artan miktarlarda parayla kumar oynamas\u0131.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f: Sorunlar\u0131ndan ka\u00e7mas\u0131 veya kendisini rahats\u0131z edici duygulardan uzakla\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in kumar oynamas\u0131.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015fme: Para kaybettikten sonra kaybettiklerini kazanmak i\u00e7in tekrar kumar oynamas\u0131. Kaybettiklerinin pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015fmesi patolojik kumar ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli belirtilerinden biridir.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Yalan s\u00f6yleme: Kumar al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n seviyesini gizlemek i\u00e7in aile \u00fcyelerine, dan\u0131\u015fmana ve di\u011fer ki\u015filere yalan s\u00f6ylemesi.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Yasa d\u0131\u015f\u0131 eylemler: Kumar al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 finanse edebilmesi i\u00e7in yasal olmayan i\u015flere giri\u015fmesi.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Zarar g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f \u00f6nemli ili\u015fkiler: Kumar oynama davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcnden ili\u015fkilerini, mesle\u011fini ve e\u011fitimsel olanaklar\u0131n\u0131 tehlikeye atmas\u0131 veya kaybetmesi.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bailout: Kumar sonucunda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 mali s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lardan kurtulmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7evresindekilere g\u00fcvenmesi.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kontrol kayb\u0131:&nbsp; Kumar al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmesi kontrol edebilmesi ya da kesebilmesi i\u00e7in tekrar eden ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z denemelerde bulunmas\u0131.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Kumar oynayan ki\u015filerde bu belirtilerden 5 veya daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 patolojik kumar ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n, 3 veya 4 tanesinin olmas\u0131 problem olabilecek kumar al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n, 1 veya 2 tane olmas\u0131 riskli kumar oynama al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maa\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n 3 kat\u0131ndan fazlas\u0131n\u0131 \u0130DD\u0130A&nbsp; ya da AT YARI\u015eI gibi oyunlara yat\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen bir dan\u0131\u015fan\u0131m e\u015finden bo\u015fanmak istedi\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyordu. \u201c 7 y\u0131ll\u0131k evliyiz, iki \u00e7ocuc\u011fumuz var, evin ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 bile maa\u015f\u0131m\u0131zla tam kar\u015f\u0131layam\u0131yorken bir de gidip s\u00fcrekli paray\u0131 kumara yat\u0131r\u0131yor doktor han\u0131m, ba\u015fka \u00e7arem kalmad\u0131, ya bo\u015fan\u0131yoruz avukata gidelim ya da tedavi olmay\u0131 kabul et \u201c [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[158],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4882","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uzman-gorusleri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4882","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4882"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4882\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4895,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4882\/revisions\/4895"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4882"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4882"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elika.app\/hamile-kadin-bebek\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4882"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}